Reddit aita truth NTA - From the title and start, I thought you just told her because you felt she should know, but that wasn't the case. I appreciate everyone saying this was my truth to tell an being really supportive of everything In this case the court already had a copy of the lease he signed for his apartment so they would have known I lied. AITA for telling the truth to mcdonald’s customers and employees I am a vegan activist and I know that all mcdonald’s employees and customers are mean to vegans so I handed out pamphlets about vegan activism and how they should stop eating at mcdonald’s and while giving pamphlets to the workers I told them the chickens and cows will be When I said I wasn't coming my grandpa asked why (you must know he talks very loudly, mostly because he's losing his hearing due to age) so naturally everyone heard and stared at us from the living room, I said the truth which was along the lines of "I´d rather not going out with my uncles, everyone knows we don´t get along" everyone heard me AITA? ---- Update posted today -- May 31, 19 days later. AITA, but for relationship posts. You are being weirdly private, though, they probably don’t or wouldn’t really even care about the “real” reason a coworker, (you), would be going to Atlanta. Growing up I always knew I wanted children but was always on the fence about a lasting romantic partnership so once I was more established I this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Instead of beating around the bush or lying, I told my supervisor the truth as to why my coworker doesnt like me and put her job at risk. We’ve been very happy together every since. You definitely owe SIL an apology for putting her though that, she seems like a kind person so I’m sure she’ll be nice about it - but still apologize. sorted by: Discovering your father's truth may Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. That's a win in my book. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I may be the asshole because it’s true that I didn’t give my brother a chance to try and fix things. And actually, K's parents and everyone else who kept the lie going are TAs. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I know many people don't like to tell they use steroids, and I was speaking about it pretty openly. I wish you the best going forward And not telling your coworkers “the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth” about your upcoming trip is not lying, you aren’t under oath, in front of a judge. The internet strangers say thats After the show, I had a meeting with the operations manager, and another director. I obviously said no since I don’t have any income and she got mad at me. No one should have been clearing "unwanted junk" from your room apart from you. I'm not saying you for sure handled this badly, I don't know, but I-shoot-straight people DO tend to handle communication badly as far as I can see. No personal attacks. When the daughter is 4 and asking why daddy isn't around you don't tell the story above. I went on a trip with my grandparents and came back to my mom moved out and a NTA. He cheated on you. Not wanting to hurt her feelings, I tried to find something positive to say but couldn't lie about the taste. It’s the fact that he did it to shut him up. If the truth puts someone in trouble then it is their own fault. " AITA? Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: The action that should be judged it's that I didn't tell him the truth in the first place when we had our relationship, and that action made me the asshole because I should've Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Being spiteful is not a good look. It's a group chat! There are several people talking! OP, your additions of "boring" and "yawn" to a conversation between multiple people aren't simply rude, they're irrelevant. You are of course free to live your own life, your own truth, and share that openly. true. You are never the AH for speaking the truth. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. But y t a for bringing them in the first place. Maybe divorce her and then I can invite you and you can miserably watch mom be happy with her new boyfriend who verbally abused my girlfriend. This comment is a record of the above post as it was originally written, in case the post is deleted or edited. So, Reddit, AITA for refusing to forgive my mom after finding out she lied about my dad for my entire life? 622 comments; share; save; hide. NTA. There were other things he could have said or done to get him to stop, but actually telling him the truth was stupid Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. You don't have to lie, but you don't have to make a bull in a china shop of the truth either. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Edit: For some info when she spilled the water in front of my door she said it was in response to how I've been making a mess in HER balcony until now. It's not fair for your sister to manipulate the situation and paint you as the one who broke up the marriage. As for your husband, he needs to simply come to terms with the fact this is standard treatment and his focsus should be on his mental health and not paranoia about guns. A whoops pregnancy that my Instead of trying to make excuses for Danielle, them and now that everyone else knows the truth all need to do what they can to get him away from her. The cast of players: Suzy - single old friend with a moustache that no-one acknowledges and complains about being single. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I'm asking if I WIBTA if: I told my daughter that her dad always thought she wasn't his and the only reason he is paying attention to her now is due to sports Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here AITA: I'm a waitress at a restaurant and I make quite a bit of tips (I have an above average sized chest section) and whenever I clock out whoever is in charge needs to count my tips to stop any stealing (it's happened before at my restaurant) and when I get home with the tips I put them in a secret location in my room. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told the truth about how I hated the program I was enrolled in 2. There really is no reason for us to choose truth since we already know a lot about each other so we mostly went just with dares. Regina is upset "I painted her as the villain" and after discussing what happened with my friends a lot of them think I shouldn't have told him the truth. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think IATA because I said the truth as to why I was speaking to my cousin, when her sister asked. I have made a name for myself telling people about South Asia's exotic but backwards practices; for instance, in India it's extremely common for people to smoke cigarettes at weddings, which we multifaceted white people never do. I certainly cant think of anything. He gets reported to the reported to the school board and I am terrified that my name will be in rumors/gossip. AITA for telling my parents that if they won’t tell me the truth, I’ll assume the worst of them Sooooo my (14f) family totally exploded while I was on spring break two weeks ago. And how I was promised not to say a word to him about it. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I didn't tell my wife the truth, which might make me an asshole, especially since it was to protect a former lover. Ultimately I ironically hope he does say its physical cause for OP and us we're all going to be going x to doubt, even if he is telling the truth. She started to ask questions about various mythical persons (the tooth fairy etc) then started to get curious about Santa. NTA even if you did it on purpose. This is something I'm curious of what could he do, if any to prove that hes for once telling the truth. That is a major dick move and sounds very insensitive. Rule 1: Don't be an asshole. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1-The action i took that should be judged is the fact that i told my girlfriend about the conversation with Jewel and the comments said. The brother would hardly be fucking credible. I left there father 10 years ago to domestic violence, he has always struggled with alcohol and anger issues. 39K votes, 698 comments. Just feels like yet another situation where people on reddit don't care how someone affects a woman because men gotta Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Do not feel guilty at all. Unhealthy parent-child relationships can cause real damage that can set the child up for a cycle of harmful relationships throughout their life. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. It turns out that when I was Me (33M) and my gf, Wren (37F, name changed) have been dating for 6 months. So the relationship with me and him lasts for maybe two months and then we get caught. Speak to the same parents again & let them know about the principals phone call to berate you for telling the truth so it's obvious the bullying culture goes right to the top in that school. It's not your fault that truth makes her look bad. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I got quite upset by her comment, and responded telling her that I felt her statement was unacceptable and hurtful, which turned into an argument. No insults. Mostly I'm annoyed by the comments I'm reading like "you just played truth or dare correctly therefore it doesn't matter how you made anyone feel!" Because it's so insensitive and dismissive to her. 'Even though you have tried to hide the truth from me I have recently found out about it. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. My ex told people I was chronically ill and allowed him to have sex with other people because I couldn't. AITA for telling the truth about my eighteenth birthday and embarrassing my father to his university friends? So, bluntly, I (20m) was an unwanted child. I told him that 1 he never asked if they were living here and 2 I did not promise anything to anyone. Definitely report it to your local education authority & make a formal complaint about the principal calling you to castigate you. You're not the asshole for being honest and putting it in an appropriate way when she directly asked you a question. I recently took my gf on a getaway weekend, nothing fancy just a four day weekend to the Hilton Hotel going on fun outings she mentioned she wanted to do like ice skating, dancing, painting and other fun activities. If you were a decent person and truly cared about your sister, you would help her get her mental health assessed. Throwaway Account I (48f) have two wonderful children my adoptive daughter "Kelly" (16f) and biological daughter "Amy" (14f). However, sometimes the situations are more complicated than that and it splits the crowd. The truth was that she was kept out of the home because of a long pattern of extremely abusive behavior towards her sister. But she absolutely deserves to know the truth. . AITA for telling the truth about my friend’s death? TW Self Harm To cut a long story short, the only relevant part of the story is that I had concerns about my friend, broke his door down and found him deceased in his bathroom with a ligature around his neck. AITA? Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Edit: OP is making decisions under significant financial duress and is also a victim of this situation along with the poor child. I'm pretty sure the Hospital expected your husband to lie and that is why they verified it with his spouse. She exclaimed how all that I cooked her was Kraft Dinner (box mac n YTA. Rule 2: Relationship For some background my brother 32 m has been in trouble with our mom and the law for as long as I can remember, he's a thief and drug user, I 18 m told the truth to his baby mama. When it got to Alex’s turn and he picked truth, I asked him why he thought his girlfriend cheated on him. That goes against both this sub's rules as well as Reddit's terms of agreement. Worst idea ever to invite narcs on a trip, of course they sabotaged it, made everyone miserable, and made everything about them. Regardless, she put you through shit, continued to spread the lie on his behalf, never bothered to talk to you about it and get the true story, berated you in class. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my daughter the truth without asking her mother if it was okay. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my sister there’s a reason her kids chose to live with their dad and not her even though I know it was a very sensitive topic for her. That completely changes the situation because she goes from victim to offender. You reaffirm At first, she tried to play dumb, acting confused and asking where I found it. This is the fan made sub-Reddit for the amazing podcast "Dungeons and Daddies, not a BDSM podcast". Those invites I believe it was unquestionably the right thing for you to tell her the inconvenient truth no matter the short-term ramifications, for now she can rebuild her relationship with her mother’s family He lied to them for years, and then they found out the truth, and he wants to blame you for it. the answer should be "yes". Rule-breaking may result in a ban without notice. Bro him telling him the truth isn’t the problem I have. I am someone who has always struggled with anxiety and suicidal thoughts so I was wanting to keep the truth hidden as possible. He reached out to you and asked a fairly simple question, and unless you embellished it or you were "colorful" in your fact telling, you just answered him with the truth. He was alive, and she had lied to me for my entire life. report; top 200 comments show 500. Part of my mom's side of the family (who knows how my stepdad can be) is proud of me for standing up for myself and telling him the truth. It was pretty fun and we had some weird challenges. CHECK FLAIR to determine if you want to read an update. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my friend her crush knew she liked him, her and my other friend them reprimanded me for "giving advice on something I know nothing about" I thought I was in the Posted by u/Obvious_Delay_4308 - 8,178 votes and 1,945 comments Please read our SUB RULES before commenting. We got married at 28 when she was pregnant with our daughter. You see; nothing you've described in this post is about favoritism at all. It's not responsible parenting for them to lie or omit the truth. How could he possibly think that his daughter would accept that his spouse is more important than her? Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. You tried to not tell her but she pressed, so you gave her the truth that she wanted, not your fault your sister can’t take what she asked for and your mom is wrong to think the way she did. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: AITA for "allegedly" threatening my friend to Situations like this are exactly why parents need to tell their kids the truth and stop covering for the shitty behavior of their ex-spouse. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here AITA for stating the truth to my divorced mother? Not the A-hole According to Reddit I can't give a fuck about your feelings or be nice to your wife of over a decade. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. At this point I'm emotionally exhausted and I can't take much more of this drama. People cross-post stories for a chance that our podcast hosts (Sean, John and Josh) will read the story on the show. I work full time in a very high stress but lucrative field. She dared me to give her $300, even though she knows I’m unemployed. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think I might be TA as I really upset my pregnant daughter, causing her potential stress. A AUTOMOD The following is a copy of the above post. They still need to process the real truth. Our schedules have been terrible. My kids 11 and going into 6th grade next year. You can't let her live in the hope you will change your mind, and quite honestly it would be selfish of you to hold on to her till a better prospect comes along, I'm not saying that to be cruel, but that's essentially what you would be doing. That sounds like a fun comeback on reddit, but this is one of the few AITA posts I actually could believe really happened because instead, they talk like normal people who care about their child. Feel free to discuss episodes, Daddies, and any other D&D related goodness! Members Online [ns] Something like Dungeons And Daddies that ISNT NADDpod, Adventure zone AITA for my answer during truth or dare? My daughter turned 21 this past weekend. So I want to know AITA? Forgot to add FIL had a very unique and unusual name by the standards of my country, I have yet to meet another person other than James with the same name as him. Alright well mods didn’t allow this update on AITA sub so just gonna post here on my account Shit has really gotten so crazy since this post I actually needed some time to get my head right. Maybe she was dumb. She asked because she was looking for the truth, she trusted you to tell her the truth, and you did. The rest of the family is on my stepdad's side, saying I'm disrespectful and that he's just doing what's best for my sister. But when I pushed harder, the truth came out—my dad wasn’t dead. You coerced invitations from me knowing I didn't have the whole truth. But my brother and some other people (my mom, one of my sisters, my uncle etc) are mad that I told the truth in court even though my brother asked me not to. Kate has probably made the decision to keep this baby, believing that she won't be a single parent, because of their ongoing insistence on this. OP is NTA. I(27f) told my great aunt(65f) the truth about what my mom(51f) has done with the money she sent after my grandpas passing. Now he thinks I'm the asshole because he won't be able to see them. be an adult and say you don't like it !! its a huge breach Plus it'll also give the kids a safe space to vent considering they've just had one hell of a truth bomb dropped on them that shattered what they believed to be the truth and god knows what bs their mum and her husband have been feeding them over the last 6 years. If you don't see marriage in your future with her, then it's kinder to free her to meet someone who will. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I believe that what I said to my mom might’ve been too harsh and I wasn’t being fair to her although I don’t think it was too harsh other people such as my sister think I Tell the truth, and hopefully others will call her out on her shit. its also a HUGE lie, bc casually saying you're allergic one time is different from intentionally deceiving your serious bf to the point of buying fake medical equipment to keep up the lie. Yeah, that sucks, but at least you tried. r/AmItheAsshole, abbreviated as AITA, is a subreddit where users post about their real-world interpersonal conflicts and receive judgement from fellow redditors. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my mom that I hate her because of the things she did while in an abusive relationship, and I didn't forgive her for kicking me out. After the meal, she asked for my honest opinion. AITA for telling the truth about my sister to my "niece"? Meme Some context. AITA for telling my parents that if they won’t tell me the truth, I’ll assume the worst of them this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. Taking the posts seriously is heavily discouraged. He just doesn't ask about stuff. jabs and I Posted by u/Judgement_Bot_AITA - 54 votes and 1 comment this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. Yesterday I was supposed to spend the night at my friends house with some of my classmates and we were playing truth or dare. It hurt K, but it shouldn't have had to be OP to be the one to tell her her own truth. This is my first relationship after being single for 2 years. So if OP related this to Ryan as truth, that his parents don't really care about him because Jake didn't need replacing, then OP gets into AH territory too. She said I ruined the game for her. First time posting so bear with me. My grandpa passed away July 2023 and my mom has now in total taken/stolen $6100 for his supposed funeral costs. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my dad on his anniversary (in front of other people) the real reason why I don't want to g on vacations with him/his family which probably caused problems. I’m glad Laura knows the truth but it’s so sad that the truth is unfathomably painful. Before the podcast started reading reddit stories, the hosts would choose a topic and research it using Wikipedia. Please keep discussions within the posts of this sub. Posted by u/Forsaken_Seesaw_4069 - 8,768 votes and 746 comments AITA For wanting to break up with my GF after finding out the truth? I am a 30 (M) and my GF a 29 (F) have been dating for 2yrs now. She did that to herself Posted by u/sickifmoo - 10,808 votes and 1,752 comments NTA the difference between 'hating' and 'allergic' is huge actually, one you don't like and the other kills you and bankrupts you with medical debt. Not the A-hole In high school I currently (25m) had a crush on a guy named Jax. This is way above Reddit's paygrade (far beyond simple "asshole" territory) and the comments really need to be locked on this thread IMO lol. She's likely going to have a breakdown when I honestly am doubting myself if I'm actually right and if I should be putting my foot down so hard to her. Miranda If you're just saying flat facts without attending to the feelings of the other person, Y probably TA. You can stand up for yourself without stooping to the level of someone like op who is slinging low blows. this subreddit is for a podcast called reddit on wiki, that reads reddit stories. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I don't speak about my finances and I feel like I'm a total asshole for it because I could have helped my sister during her time of need when she was in debt and I The truth or dare part makes me think this is fake because A) grown man playing truth or dare like you said and B) No one is this dense. I (25f) took my sister (16) to coffee on friday, to catch up and spend time together. Posted by u/throwaway23862 - 12,431 votes and 1,301 comments Of course this is asked here on AITA, where people despise stepfamilies with white-hot passion. " I hung up and blocked her number. Obviously they caused a great distress to their child, but also it seems that revealing the truth change the church couple circle attitude - so from this we can assume they were being dishonest in some circumstances where honesty was required. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told on my mom. The truth is, the food tasted quite awful – it was overcooked and lacked flavor. Let her go. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my 13-year-old niece the Unfortunately their unreasonable positivity is only going to hurt Kate. My wife and I met at 21. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. Welcome to reddit AITA, where people just make shit up and run with wild assumptions. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I hope you can find real life support. Maybe she believed his lies. No bigotry or hate speech. Of course it is. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I was very literal and honest when my parents set an "assignment" for my brothers and I to be open and honest about any issues we had as a family with each other or AITA for telling my wife the truth? A little back story. Posting "boring" in a group chat is like seeing a pizza stand in the park and walking up to them to declare that you don't like pizza--it gives them no useful information and will not cause them to stop selling pizza. I currently live with my dad while I rebuild my career and he's been so great about letting me live there and being great with my dog and supporting me through everything I got going on. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1: Disregarding everyone else’s feelings in the situation so that my half sister could know the truth 2:Actually going out of my way to tell my half sister the truth and Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Fuck man, 34 here, lost my mom just over a year ago. Share Sort by: Top. Blurting it out wasn't great, but can see how K's bullying --- and her parents not telling her the truth --- just pushed you into fighting back with facts. Well pretty much like the title asks. And while I did say "if anything you would have been the AH not to tell her" that's in a rather abstracted, conceptual sense of what's right in theory, and doesn't account for how the person might react. I hope once you reach your teen years (I assume you're 12 or under based on the content of this post) you'll realize that "I have bad temper" actually just means "I'm selfish and willing to hurt people in the moment rather than controlling my emotions" & it isn't an excuse for your behavior. Keep in mind people are here to arbitrate a relationship they care about. So my gf asked me to play a game of truth or dare. Would I be the asshole for telling my kids 12f 10m the truth about their father. You spoke very hurtfully, and deliberately hurtfully, about things that were not your place to get angry or upset about. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I took some really deep. I would be embarrassed and ashamed of myself for some of these comments. That is almost more cruel than Tom’s behavior. I never admitted the truth to my daughter. If they can’t well the good thing about I do believe that the truth should be told to children but in digestible forms for their ages. Tell the truth—diplomatically and age-appropriately, but tell it—and let the chips fall where they may. Hence why I'm asking here on AITA In the moment I thought I was in the right but with her saying I was being so disrespectful and emotionally blackmailing her has really made me wonder if I am in the wrong. I always like posting online where no one can physically judge me, so thus I ask, AITA for telling my cousins the truth about their parents? tl;dr: uncle and aunt got abortion way back when, told unbeknownst cousins about it when they judged our cousin for having baby out of wedlock, parents mad at me. Everything went fine until I decided to ask for my first dare. You did not speak a truth here. People who cover for others’ bad behavior are only hurting themselves. AITA for telling a “friend” the truth about her and her marriage Advice Needed OK, so I know the title makes me sound like a complete jerk, but y'all have to hear me out please and if I still in the AHH, then I am So I 29 F went home for leave and I’m hanging with my friend (32 f) (I'll call her Mary) and I’m Bout to lose my mind She this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. You are telling the truth and sadly have to look out for yourself now. It is your parents anniversary, not NTA - she’s 18 not 12, she’s old enough to know the truth. Help keep the sub engaging! Posted by u/Sweaty-Tomato-2500 - 17,679 votes and 1,601 comments I then said I will not be attending any events with them for the future and I said "you guys can go f*ck yourselves. Try to be helpful without being mean - even to those not in the thread/on reddit. He looked very embarrassed and walked off. I also come from a blended family, with bio relatives, step relatives, and half relatives. The truth always comes out. For concluded-only updates, use the CONCLUDED flair or subscribe to r/BestofBoRU for concluded, time-gated content. So I have to ask: AITA for telling the truth despite what my brother said. You didn't intentionally seek him out in some sneaky, underhanded revenge plot. When it got to my turn, Alex asked me again about my body count and as we couldn’t skip I said 1. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: We showed up at our son's play after he told us we didn't need to attend. Let it be known the last message that I got from him was 2 1/2 weeks before all of this. Later, a group of us decided to play truth or dare and you weren’t allowed to skip. AITA for spreading the truth that many people try to hide especially the Western media for trying to help my brothers and sisters in the occupied country I will tell you the truth that no one will tell you about israel The ongoing war between Children deserve to know the truth and be able to form their own opinions based on accurate information. AITA for telling my sister the truth? Not the A-hole Throw away account since she has reddit. Open comment sort options like a game of "truth or dare" where a "truth" destroys a friendship or a game of "never have I ever" where drama comes this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. AITA for spreading the truth . If you have an issue with this post (flair, formatting, quality), reply to this comment. So my story is my mother had an affair with a friend's dad and she the man child she married turned in to a child bully and mentally abused me and my siblings, long story short because I wouldn't listen to a word he said and call him dad I was labeled as a child who had behavioral issues and bad attitude, im writing this to get some aspect as to why people think Im the bad YTA Brutally honest = tactless in your case. He f*cked around and found out. Posted by u/Big-Dark8472 - 2,538 votes and 292 comments You weren't speaking the truth, you were giving your opinion. OP, I lived a similar life as you did. I have debilitating anxiety, and take medication for it. Posted by u/Insufficientdata4884 - 7,026 votes and 1,311 comments It was wrong of your aunt to keep the truth from your cousin; you telling your cousin wasn't the best way for him to find the truth, but it sounds like everyone is on the same page now: we shouldn't have lied because it hurt Cousin, and we're supporting each other the best way we can. Or check it out in the app stores AITA? Archived post. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told some of my friends of my A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Do they know In r/AmItheA**hole, all opinions are welcome as people share their aita stories to figure out if they're in the wrong. Posted by u/CaregiverHuge1686 - 30,390 votes and 2,079 comments Still asshole behavior, still requiring therapy all around, but none of it requires the replacement hypothesis to be truth. Also, every time I hear someone pressure me to tell them the truth, and nothing but the hard truth, I know that they want me to lie, LOL since I usually tell them my thoughts anyway and they full well know that. I am chronically ill and I shouldn't have been having sex with him because I was too sick but he coerced and If this is consistent behavior, then your mom is the asshole and possibly diagnosibly so. That makes me an asshole. Either way, you're definitely NTA. If she does get help, it will be your choice if you choose to maintain contact with her. I wanted to give Miranda some credit, since I wouldn't have gotten the position without her, but I told them the truth. Her weakness doesn’t mean you have to hide the truth. well recently my dad's Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. All was well until she began telling me how much she hated "spending time" with me as a kid. Tell her about the, just as you have told us here. This is a sister sub to r/AmITheAsshole. Your actions in telling your daughters to verify the truth with their grandparents and father demonstrate transparency and honesty. Contact your therapist OP. Read this before contacting the mod team. this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation. I (25M, white, gamer, Redditor) backpacked through India for 2 years in college; thus, I am an authority on all things South Asian. Posted by u/Weekly-Lab-7944 - 13,257 votes and 1,046 comments YTA, His sister was correct and you should feel guilty about your vindictive betrayal of his trust. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my friends ex some of the things they told me about how they were treated during the relationship which they hadn’t told their ex. They wanted to know why I wasn't ready. After that I didn’t have the heart to tell him the truth. Husbands posting about their wives on AITA (and Reddit) seem really hate their wives. One part of this was the truth. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. Memes allowed, shitposts only on weekends. How on earth are you the bad guy for speaking the truth to that woman that he lied to and would definitely cheat on her too. If you're going to tell the truth, ask him not to spoil it for others. If there is such a place as Hell in the afterlife, they both are headed there for eternity for what they did to Laura and Kim. Or check it out in the app stores AITA for not telling my partner the truth about the love note that started us. Around age 8, I told her 'she who does not believe does not receive', gave her $50 and asked her to help Santa out by buying my stocking stuffers. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My aunt posted a vague rant on Facebook about how the woke young people are cancelling families after i uninvited her from the family Christmas party Same with their child. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I probably could have been less honest with Brad, because it seems like it caused huge issues. Ten years later and they are getting a very messy divorce - 1 year ago the truth did come out about what he did to me (guilty drunken confession by my sister to another sibling) and I truly believe that was the beginning of the end. You should know your friend well enough to realize she would not be able to handle the truth. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I should be judged on how I confided in my extended family my feelings about my parents and Amy. Ask your therapist if your mothers assessment of the conversation is correct- it’s not, by the way, but get the therapists opinion- and ask for advice on handling your mother from now on. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. He then gets on me for not telling the truth about it all. NTA for standing firm with your mom. Maybe she realized she was wrong. I then got a call later from my sister who told me that "while my rage is very much justified, my mother is inconsolable and has locked herself in our parents' bedroom. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. lxloryw glxdmdb xiqp jjdbk kfav gxmueqgt ibvr kaz apfgdv apnkig